Jacquie, Mum to 5 week old Bonnie
Prior to the birth of our baby girl I was desperate to arm myself with as much information and training as I could in two areas: breastfeeding and sleep! I found that there was so much information and support out there for breastfeeding but really struggled to find anything antenatally on sleep. I ended up going to a general information night on sleep that really wasn't specific to newborns. Therefore, I got little out of it. Looking back, I wish I had found Kristy and got her to do a home consult!! Getting her to do a consult prior would have really set things up for a positive start for our baby when it came to sleep.
The first few weeks of parenthood I thought we had a dream baby though. She slept and fed, slept and fed. Then around weeks 4-5 things changed and she started getting really windy, unhappy and wasn’t sleeping at all during the day! I could tell that she wasn’t getting enough sleep and was concerned that she only seemed to be able to be settled through breastfeeding. It was hard on my husband too who was feeling helpless and constantly handing her to me saying “I think she needs to be fed”. I would reply with “She can’t possibly, but I will try again”. Something had to change. I decided to act now, put some hard work in to sleep training with Kristy and hope that it would make for a brighter and happier future for our little girl and our whole family.
Kristy helped us break some unhelpful sleep associations by creating more positive ones for us and our baby. She educated us on what our babies needs were and ways we could settle her without feeding her to sleep. This in turn meant I no longer had a windy baby and my happy little girl was back!! My husband and I were so much better for it too. Something as little as knowing that at 6.30pm she was off to bed and I could sit down and have a glass of wine was a big relief - after fighting to put her down for hours before this. She would go down with much less fuss each time and wake up happier too. Keeping a log for Kristy was hard but the most beneficial part of the experience. It helped us to commit to what needed to be done and get great feedback and support.
One other thing that I was so grateful for was how gentle and encouraging Kristy was. She picked up on my anxieties, whether about feeding, crying or using a dummy etc, and gently supported me through it. She did this through educating me about why and helping me decide what I felt comfortable doing or not doing (without trying to force something on me or making me feel guilty).
Thank you Kristy I know that we have created some positive and strong foundations for our baby girl when it comes to sleep, and we have such a happy, healthier baby for it!!